As formerly mentioned in a previous blog, lessons (on Wed) have been on relationships.  (Of course the last one was of a more Christmas-y flavor.)  The classes aren't as hard as I had at first thought.  I do a TON of research, reading, praying, planning, and more praying.

There has been a bit of an odd couple of circumstances. I do a lot of eating out.  (Hello- single guy, not dating... dishes? No way!)  And these times are perfect for reading.  Of late, I have been reading Christian books on dating.  My waitress noticed the title of the book I was reading, and asked about it.  I explained why I was reading it, told her about the youth group, and all.   She took my order and went on her way.

After I had been served my meal, and was winding it down, my waitress came back with another waitress, and asked if they could talk with me.  I told them that would be fine, and they both sat down across from me.  Seems they were both in the dating scene, and didn't feel like they were very good at it.  (Amazing how much conversation you can put into a prayer said under your breath!)

God was definitely at that table.  I told them the Biblical perspective on the dating game.  I told them what standards they should uphold.  That led to who set the standards.  And that led to talking about a Holy God who loved them so much He would die for them.

I won't lie and say they dropped to their knees and are ready for baptism (though I wouldn't have minded!)  They have told me (on other nights) that they have applied the principals I laid out, and were having a much better dating experience. (Special thanks to Jeanne Mayo, and her book "The Uncensored Truth About Friendship, Dating, & Sex")  With any luck, I might get two new college kids into church. Not holding my breath, but not putting anything past God, either!

It is also refreshing that when I broach any topic resembling intimacy, the entire junior high group blushes in unison.  I was afraid that the kids had a more sophisticated dating mentality than me from the 4th grade on! (After all, my last "date" pre-dated the 21st century)  It is nice to know that, despite being in public school, it hadn't quite (yet) degraded to pubic school. 

Well, it's almost time  for Men's group, then I need to print the CD's for the audio distribution of worship service.  And I need to finish preparing the activity for youth Sunday School (decorating a 2lb Rice Krispy Treat). And I need  to set up a Trustees meeting to discuss our last water bill.  So much for a day off, I guess.

God bless!

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